Losing anyone is hard - perhaps it is because we feel sorry for ourselves and there is no consoling oneself. We feel empty and lost. Our heart feels crushed. Our own life loses its purpose sometimes. How do we handle that? This is a question I am often asked.
Well, there is not one single thing anyone can tell you that will brush away the pain and morever, bring that person back of course. Just like a physical wound needs time to heal, so do emotional wounds. We need to cry and have private time to think of our loss and mourn. Time is the only healer. However, since people always need some "medication" for all pain, my advice is to think of all the things our loved one did and enjoyed doing. Call on them to join you and "do" them with you. After the bleed - we need to cover that wound so that it heals. That would be about the right time to go ahead and carry on with what they would have loved to have done. You will smile again and that gap will be filled with love - a solid substance which nothing at all can erase.
Well, there is not one single thing anyone can tell you that will brush away the pain and morever, bring that person back of course. Just like a physical wound needs time to heal, so do emotional wounds. We need to cry and have private time to think of our loss and mourn. Time is the only healer. However, since people always need some "medication" for all pain, my advice is to think of all the things our loved one did and enjoyed doing. Call on them to join you and "do" them with you. After the bleed - we need to cover that wound so that it heals. That would be about the right time to go ahead and carry on with what they would have loved to have done. You will smile again and that gap will be filled with love - a solid substance which nothing at all can erase.
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